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Dear Darlin'


Sub-Lyrics from the hit single "Dear Darlin'" - these words are for Mia

Dear Darlin’, please excuse my writing.
I can’t stop my hands from shaking
'Cause I’m cold and alone tonight.
I miss you and nothing hurts like no you.
And no one understands what we went through.
It was short. It was sweet. We tried.

And if my words break through the wall
And meet you at your door,
All I could say is “Girl, I mean them all.”

Olly Murs (c) 2014

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